Feed Your Starved Intellect & Beat Stress
The problem of stress is very T common. Almost all of us suffer from stress and so we need to find a method for de-stressing. In my experience, there is no mechanical technique of de-stressing. Such a technique could be applied only toa robot, not to a living human being. The first step is to diagnose the problem of stress. This is the beginning of the process of de-stressing. In my view, stress is actually a problem of starvation. Just as our body needs food, without which we would go hungry, so also does our intellect need 'food'. When we have a feeling of stress what we are actually experiencing is intellectual or spiritual starvation. A verse from the Bible which is part of the Lord's Prayer says: "Give us today our daily bread." (Matthew 6:11) These words are meant to indicate to us the course we need to take in self training. It tells us that we need to feed our spiritual starvation. But this can happen only if we learn how to extract spiritual food from our daily experiences. In nature, it is the honeybee which demonstrates this method by extracting nectar from flowers and making food from it for itself. Similarly, there is spiritual nectar for a person in every experience that he faces. This nectar has to be extracted one daily basis from the experiences we have every day. If we fail to do so, we shall suffer from spiritual starvation. For example, while at work in your office, you may feel that you are being discriminated against. If you reflect on the matter, you will find that what you faced was not a result of the D-factor, but of the Q-factor. That is, the reason for this was not discrimination but was rather your own deficiency in whatever qualities were required in your office. Discovering this is like extracting nectar. Once you have extracted this 'nectar' you will find positive lines on which to think. You will focus on improving the quality of your work and soon see that there will be no more 'discrimination'. People generally live in a self-centred world. They know about themselves, but remain unaware about others. Therefore every person tends to overestimate himself while he underestimates others. This disparity in thinking results in stress. If you are able to eliminate this disparity and adopt a realistic approach, you will certainly be able to lead a stress-free life. Stress is often due to recalling past failures or worrying about the future. A simple solution for the mental angcausedby past failures is to forget similarly, a simple solution for wo about the future is that you should about the problem only if it becomreality rather than worry in advarVery frequently what one worries does not become a reality, so there need to worry about it beforehandIknowa student who was so worried about the result of his expatiate he had to be hospitalised. But when the results came out, he hadpassed the exam with good marksthis experience, there was nectarthe student-that is, he should awaited for the result rather than bworried in advance. Stressmay be equated with intellectual starvation. If you disc the art of feeding the intellect, younever have to complain of stress.
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Feed Your Starved Intellect & Beat Stress
The problem of stress is very T common. Almost all of us suffer from stress and so we need to find a method for de-stressing. In my experience, there is no mechanical technique of de-stressing. Such a technique could be applied only toa robot, not to a living human being. The first step is to diagnose the problem of stress. This is the beginning of the process of de-stressing. In my view, stress is actually a problem of starvation. Just as our body needs food, without which we would go hungry, so also does our intellect need 'food'. When we have a feeling of stress what we are actually experiencing is intellectual or spiritual starvation. A verse from the Bible which is part of the Lord's Prayer says: "Give us today our daily bread." (Matthew 6:11) These words are meant to indicate to us the course we need to take in self training. It tells us that we need to feed our spiritual starvation. But this can happen only if we learn how to extract spiritual food from our daily experiences. In nature, it is the honeybee which demonstrates this method by extracting nectar from flowers and making food from it for itself. Similarly, there is spiritual nectar for a person in every experience that he faces. This nectar has to be extracted one daily basis from the experiences we have every day. If we fail to do so, we shall suffer from spiritual starvation. For example, while at work in your office, you may feel that you are being discriminated against. If you reflect on the matter, you will find that what you faced was not a result of the D-factor, but of the Q-factor. That is, the reason for this was not discrimination but was rather your own deficiency in whatever qualities were required in your office. Discovering this is like extracting nectar. Once you have extracted this 'nectar' you will find positive lines on which to think. You will focus on improving the quality of your work and soon see that there will be no more 'discrimination'. People generally live in a self-centred world. They know about themselves, but remain unaware about others. Therefore every person tends to overestimate himself while he underestimates others. This disparity in thinking results in stress. If you are able to eliminate this disparity and adopt a realistic approach, you will certainly be able to lead a stress-free life. Stress is often due to recalling past failures or worrying about the future. A simple solution for the mental angcausedby past failures is to forget similarly, a simple solution for wo about the future is that you should about the problem only if it becomreality rather than worry in advarVery frequently what one worries does not become a reality, so there need to worry about it beforehandIknowa student who was so worried about the result of his expatiate he had to be hospitalised. But when the results came out, he hadpassed the exam with good marksthis experience, there was nectarthe student-that is, he should awaited for the result rather than bworried in advance. Stressmay be equated with intellectual starvation. If you disc the art of feeding the intellect, younever have to complain of stress.
DISCLAIMER:
The views expressed in the Article above are Maulana Wahiduddin Khạn and kashmiribhatta.in is not in any way responsible for the opinions expressed in the above article. The article belongs to its respective owner or owners and this site does not claim any right over it.
Courtesy: Maulana Wahiduddin Khạn and Speaking Tree,Times of India