Grow To Love In The Laboratory Of Marriage
It is impossible to feel a sense of peace and satisfaction if there is disharmony in relationships and family life. Unless human relationships are stable, operating in any environment-family, social, national, or even professionalpecomesapain. Thus one has to understands relationships andthe expression, 'love the family'. It is not immediately possible to love very one. One learns to grow in love in he laboratory of the house and family. When one receives love from parents, mothers, sisters and other relatives, one egins to love; such a loved personality is blue to extend love to the outside world. In India, a family starts when amen nd a woman agree to create the bond of marriage. The perfect example of an exquisite couple is Shiva and Parvati. Bhavani, that is, Parvati represents Shraddha-understanding-and Shankara portrays vishwas-love. These are two important elements in a successful marriage. Where there is love, you believe in that person, you trust that person; there is harmony and an understanding of each other. This element of trust is illustrated in the significant ceremony of paanigrahanam where the father of the bride hands over his daughter to the bridegroom. The husband has been entrusted someone's precious jewel and promises to love, care, support, and undertake full responsibility for his wife In Manu Smriti, the highest place has been accorded to women. It says that if a husband goes astray to another woman, the wife has the right tore fuse him marital rights but conversely, if the woman is misguided, the husband must forgive her and still give her protection. This is the status given to her; the husband is her protector and marriage has to be understood as a responsibility. Bhavai and Shankara, the divine couple, representa perfect marriage. Go swami Topsides points out that they are like a word and its meaning-always together without losing their identity They act as one, but are not crushed by one another. Marriage is not clinging; marriage is not possessiveness. Two mighty trees can grow to similar heights together and still maintain a harmonious relationship; when both develop in their own right and are given the independence to progress. There is no unfoldment in the personality if there are insecurities and attempts to repress and overshadow the other. Love should not be bondage. It is believed that by marrying, two people will complete each other. However, two incomplete personalities’ or two finites can never make a whole. Gurudev Chinmayanandajokingly remark you are complete, why do you needriageanyway?" Marriage is to earache one to grow and become comp Very often, people marry in order their personal insecurities and desTo enjoy a meaningful marri essential to give, share, and allow other to grow to completeness. Thare bound to be expectations. A husband and wife were arguing a woman complained, "I had so Mar expectations from you but you disappointed most of them." "Ihad only one expectation fro you," replied the husband, "Have expectations from me!" It is important to let yourpartaware of your expectations becaunature, men and women are intrinsdifferent. They express emotions different ways and once this is unshod, a relationship will be succeed(Swami Swaroopananda is the global head of Chinmaya Mission
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Grow To Love In The Laboratory Of Marriage
It is impossible to feel a sense of peace and satisfaction if there is disharmony in relationships and family life. Unless human relationships are stable, operating in any environment-family, social, national, or even professionalpecomesapain. Thus one has to understands relationships andthe expression, 'love the family'. It is not immediately possible to love very one. One learns to grow in love in he laboratory of the house and family. When one receives love from parents, mothers, sisters and other relatives, one egins to love; such a loved personality is blue to extend love to the outside world. In India, a family starts when amen nd a woman agree to create the bond of marriage. The perfect example of an exquisite couple is Shiva and Parvati. Bhavani, that is, Parvati represents Shraddha-understanding-and Shankara portrays vishwas-love. These are two important elements in a successful marriage. Where there is love, you believe in that person, you trust that person; there is harmony and an understanding of each other. This element of trust is illustrated in the significant ceremony of paanigrahanam where the father of the bride hands over his daughter to the bridegroom. The husband has been entrusted someone's precious jewel and promises to love, care, support, and undertake full responsibility for his wife In Manu Smriti, the highest place has been accorded to women. It says that if a husband goes astray to another woman, the wife has the right tore fuse him marital rights but conversely, if the woman is misguided, the husband must forgive her and still give her protection. This is the status given to her; the husband is her protector and marriage has to be understood as a responsibility. Bhavai and Shankara, the divine couple, representa perfect marriage. Go swami Topsides points out that they are like a word and its meaning-always together without losing their identity They act as one, but are not crushed by one another. Marriage is not clinging; marriage is not possessiveness. Two mighty trees can grow to similar heights together and still maintain a harmonious relationship; when both develop in their own right and are given the independence to progress. There is no unfoldment in the personality if there are insecurities and attempts to repress and overshadow the other. Love should not be bondage. It is believed that by marrying, two people will complete each other. However, two incomplete personalities’ or two finites can never make a whole. Gurudev Chinmayanandajokingly remark you are complete, why do you needriageanyway?" Marriage is to earache one to grow and become comp Very often, people marry in order their personal insecurities and desTo enjoy a meaningful marri essential to give, share, and allow other to grow to completeness. Thare bound to be expectations. A husband and wife were arguing a woman complained, "I had so Mar expectations from you but you disappointed most of them." "Ihad only one expectation fro you," replied the husband, "Have expectations from me!" It is important to let yourpartaware of your expectations becaunature, men and women are intrinsdifferent. They express emotions different ways and once this is unshod, a relationship will be succeed(Swami Swaroopananda is the global head of Chinmaya Mission
DISCLAIMER:
The views expressed in the Article above are Swami Swaroopananda and kashmiribhatta.in is not in any way responsible for the opinions expressed in the above article. The article belongs to its respective owner or owners and this site does not claim any right over it.
Courtesy: Swami Swaroopananda and Speaking Tree,Times of India