By Building Trust You Overcome Doubt
I even harder because of the nature of the world as we experience The changes that characterise elationships, can soon wear down our normal instincts. Often, we have to epend on inner intuition to guide us rough this maze. Trust has nothing in common with aivety. Unless we allow doubt to play a le in our lives, we cannot hope to build esting trust. In this respect we are weak nd vulnerable. We become strong owly. God removes the props we have ved with, over the years. We cannot zand all alone. We must work towards idling a community of trust. Perforce, today space between us has mrunk due to quick movement-we avel vast distances and time zones in st a day or two. There is no time to osorb the lessons we learn from culture shocks, and adapt to the differences that bring variety to the world. Earlier, families acted as natural environments for building trust. With people walking in and out of relationships, the whole edifice of families and society has undergone transformation. Families, with their give and take were able to provide stability to young and growing children. Now, torn between parents and custody battles, the young often are victims of such conflict. he young as well as adults are exposed to all kinds of people, many of whom cannot be taken at their word. Inquisiti veness and anunweloome are doing are some of the social side effects. Doubts help us to navigate through these environments before we arrive at some kind of permanence in our relationships with others. We cannot be intimate with all; we can be so only to a limited few. That is why lasting friendships have become a casualty. When we build trust, it is after we have allowed the initial doubts to settle down. We could continue to doubt unsavoury people, but side-by-side, need to start buildingcommunities of trust. Here,we have to factor out those whose motivations and behaviour are suspect. The world we confront every day is no longer simple. It is a world whose very existence is threatened by violence, mayhem, cruelty and distrust. If we take things at their face value we will end up impoverished. Often it seems that the battle is an unequal one. When some people are harmed, everyone suffers. That is why conflicts confuse issues. How do we, those who have already lived long lives and others who are still on the threshold of a new world, clarify our minds and emotions? There are no readymade answers. Ithe end, we have to find our own balancGet linked to a web of goodness and kindness instead of constantly gettingpulled into negative webs. Every systerhas thrown up new challenges. We can always beg to differ whenweare compelled into interacting with thowho want to destroy. God is our hiddenpartner in all our daily transactions. Ifwe listen to His voice, of conscience an positivity, we will be able to overcome. havejettisoned many values without replacing them with something better.The human spirit remains indomitable and no one can crush it. That is whthough wefall,we rise up again and agaNo one knows the future but we can connue to build. Some structures will comedown. What is permanent will remain.Above all, the need to build a communitof trust based on positive valuesoughttbe of paramount importance.
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Courtesy: Janina Gomes and Speaking Tree,Times of India
By Building Trust You Overcome Doubt
I even harder because of the nature of the world as we experience The changes that characterise elationships, can soon wear down our normal instincts. Often, we have to epend on inner intuition to guide us rough this maze. Trust has nothing in common with aivety. Unless we allow doubt to play a le in our lives, we cannot hope to build esting trust. In this respect we are weak nd vulnerable. We become strong owly. God removes the props we have ved with, over the years. We cannot zand all alone. We must work towards idling a community of trust. Perforce, today space between us has mrunk due to quick movement-we avel vast distances and time zones in st a day or two. There is no time to osorb the lessons we learn from culture shocks, and adapt to the differences that bring variety to the world. Earlier, families acted as natural environments for building trust. With people walking in and out of relationships, the whole edifice of families and society has undergone transformation. Families, with their give and take were able to provide stability to young and growing children. Now, torn between parents and custody battles, the young often are victims of such conflict. he young as well as adults are exposed to all kinds of people, many of whom cannot be taken at their word. Inquisiti veness and anunweloome are doing are some of the social side effects. Doubts help us to navigate through these environments before we arrive at some kind of permanence in our relationships with others. We cannot be intimate with all; we can be so only to a limited few. That is why lasting friendships have become a casualty. When we build trust, it is after we have allowed the initial doubts to settle down. We could continue to doubt unsavoury people, but side-by-side, need to start buildingcommunities of trust. Here,we have to factor out those whose motivations and behaviour are suspect. The world we confront every day is no longer simple. It is a world whose very existence is threatened by violence, mayhem, cruelty and distrust. If we take things at their face value we will end up impoverished. Often it seems that the battle is an unequal one. When some people are harmed, everyone suffers. That is why conflicts confuse issues. How do we, those who have already lived long lives and others who are still on the threshold of a new world, clarify our minds and emotions? There are no readymade answers. Ithe end, we have to find our own balancGet linked to a web of goodness and kindness instead of constantly gettingpulled into negative webs. Every systerhas thrown up new challenges. We can always beg to differ whenweare compelled into interacting with thowho want to destroy. God is our hiddenpartner in all our daily transactions. Ifwe listen to His voice, of conscience an positivity, we will be able to overcome. havejettisoned many values without replacing them with something better.The human spirit remains indomitable and no one can crush it. That is whthough wefall,we rise up again and agaNo one knows the future but we can connue to build. Some structures will comedown. What is permanent will remain.Above all, the need to build a communitof trust based on positive valuesoughttbe of paramount importance.
DISCLAIMER:
The views expressed in the Article above are Janina Gomes views and kashmiribhatta.in is not in any way responsible for the opinions expressed in the above article. The article belongs to its respective owner or owners and this site does not claim any right over it.
Courtesy: Janina Gomes and Speaking Tree,Times of India