Unpleasant Encounter With A Family Member
Our life is full of connections through which we come to grips with the negative or positive aspects of life. So we have to be very circumspect about availing opportunities afforded by natural relationships formed in the course of our existence. For example, your family is your first frame of reference. It is your family members with whom you spend your days and nights. You have various experiences with them, sometimes sweet and sometimes bitter. In this sense, your family is the most important part of your social environment. You should avail of every kind of lesson that you receive from your family If you find that certain happenings in your family are undesirable, you have to be tolerant on such occasions. You have to appreciate how even in your family circle the tenor of life cannot always be free of unwanted situations. If you find that at such times you cannot show any tolerance, you are going to find life very difficult outside the family circle when you enter society at large and encounter all kinds of unpleasantness. So, you have to accept that unpleasant experiences are an inescapable part of life. And you have to be capable of adopting a give-and-take attitude with in the family circle as well as outside in society. Your family is notjust your family: it is also a source of training for you. In this sense, your family serves as the cradle for your future career. If your school is a source of formal education for you, then your family is a source of informal education And both are equally important. For example, if you have an unfor tunateencounter with a family member, don't take it as an evil. Take it as a first, very necessary training lesson, because you are destined one day to go out of your home and live in society. And in society there will be many occasions on which you will have similar negative experiences. You must realise that your family is a blessingfor you, for it is like a training centre that sends you out into society as a prépared or mature person. Indeed, your family is the mainspring of your future life. Everyone knows that formal education is very importantfor his future, to get a good job. I do agree withthis point of view, but in terms of one's all-round existence, education is not the be-all and end-all of everything. For a better quality of life you need something more-and that is informal education. Everyone's family is the centre of informal education for him. To gain admission into this institutiondon't need to pay any kind of admisfee. It is destined by nature and by bYou should therefore make certainavail of whatever your family offerin terms of informal education. The family is a unit of society. Ithis sense, every family is like a misociety. You have to try to train youin this mini-society so that you wilable to enjoy a better life in the largsociety. One who fails to live a goopin his family circle will certainly falive a good life in society Adjustment, a principle of life,iswhat makes all social life run smootyou enter social life without first halearnt tomake adjustments withinframework of the family, you will haonlytwo options: eitherlearn to ma immediate adjustments or stoop tocrisy and then liveinastate of tennis.
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Unpleasant Encounter With A Family Member
Our life is full of connections through which we come to grips with the negative or positive aspects of life. So we have to be very circumspect about availing opportunities afforded by natural relationships formed in the course of our existence. For example, your family is your first frame of reference. It is your family members with whom you spend your days and nights. You have various experiences with them, sometimes sweet and sometimes bitter. In this sense, your family is the most important part of your social environment. You should avail of every kind of lesson that you receive from your family If you find that certain happenings in your family are undesirable, you have to be tolerant on such occasions. You have to appreciate how even in your family circle the tenor of life cannot always be free of unwanted situations. If you find that at such times you cannot show any tolerance, you are going to find life very difficult outside the family circle when you enter society at large and encounter all kinds of unpleasantness. So, you have to accept that unpleasant experiences are an inescapable part of life. And you have to be capable of adopting a give-and-take attitude with in the family circle as well as outside in society. Your family is notjust your family: it is also a source of training for you. In this sense, your family serves as the cradle for your future career. If your school is a source of formal education for you, then your family is a source of informal education And both are equally important. For example, if you have an unfor tunateencounter with a family member, don't take it as an evil. Take it as a first, very necessary training lesson, because you are destined one day to go out of your home and live in society. And in society there will be many occasions on which you will have similar negative experiences. You must realise that your family is a blessingfor you, for it is like a training centre that sends you out into society as a prépared or mature person. Indeed, your family is the mainspring of your future life. Everyone knows that formal education is very importantfor his future, to get a good job. I do agree withthis point of view, but in terms of one's all-round existence, education is not the be-all and end-all of everything. For a better quality of life you need something more-and that is informal education. Everyone's family is the centre of informal education for him. To gain admission into this institutiondon't need to pay any kind of admisfee. It is destined by nature and by bYou should therefore make certainavail of whatever your family offerin terms of informal education. The family is a unit of society. Ithis sense, every family is like a misociety. You have to try to train youin this mini-society so that you wilable to enjoy a better life in the largsociety. One who fails to live a goopin his family circle will certainly falive a good life in society Adjustment, a principle of life,iswhat makes all social life run smootyou enter social life without first halearnt tomake adjustments withinframework of the family, you will haonlytwo options: eitherlearn to ma immediate adjustments or stoop tocrisy and then liveinastate of tennis.
DISCLAIMER:
The views expressed in the Article above are Maulana Wahiduddin Khan kashmiribhatta.in is not in any way responsible for the opinions expressed in the above article. The article belongs to its respective owner or owners and this site does not claim any right over it.
Courtesy : Maulana Wahiduddin Khan Speaking Tree,Times of India